Powerful Habits For Moving Forward When Life Is A Struggle
Staying on course isn’t always easy. Sometimes, you get stuck in life and struggle.
However, some people know how to get out of a rut and find a new groove.
So, what’s their secret? They know specific behaviors and habits that keep them locked in, moving forward, and on track.
As a result, we will dive into 24 ways to level up your game when you get stuck. These are actionable, attainable steps you can take right now.
How To Start Moving Forward When You Get Stuck In Life
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1. Establish A Positive Mindset
Practice the power of positive thinking. Do not let negative thoughts get in your way.
Each morning, start your day with a pep talk.
2. Improve Your Body Language
Stand and sit up straight and put a smile on your face. When you act positively, your mind will follow your body’s lead.
3. Act With Self-Confidence
Believe in yourself. Because if you don’t, who will?
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4. Accept What You Can’t Change
If you do not like something but can’t change it, forget about it and move on. Using your energy on things you can not change is unproductive.
Remember this phrase by Reinhold Niebuhr the next time you want to change something you can’t:
“Find the peace to accept the things I can not change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.“
5. Never Set Limits On Yourself
Allow your inner strength to surprise you. We all do our best when we are put to the test.
So, remove all limiting beliefs as you move forward. Listen to your heart and cut your own path in life.
6. Set Goals
Setting goals is essential to moving forward when you are stuck in life.
Short-term goals have a significant and immediate impact. They keep you focused and direct your daily, weekly, and monthly activities.
Long-term goals provide the road map for who you want to be and what you want to do more than a year from now.
Most importantly, give yourself a deadline for each goal. A clear timeline will help you move forward when stuck in life.
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7. Establish And Stick To A Daily Routine
Happy, successful people know the importance of routines. Routines help create a positive flow and allow one’s best self to shine.
Start the day with a solid morning routine and transition to an effective work routine to maximize productivity.
Of course, be mindful of each day and fine-tune your routines to meet your needs.
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8. Embrace Change
Professional boxer Mike Tyson once said…
“Everybody has a plan until they get punched in the mouth.”
Things won’t always go as you expect. So, learn to roll with it. Adapt and adjust when life sends you the unexpected.
9. Manage Stress
Stress and worry can affect everyone. So, do your best to keep these negative emotions in check.
Remember that 90% of the things you worry about will never happen.
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10. Live In The Moment
First, don’t dwell on the past. Second, plan for the future, but don’t worry about it.
Make the most of today. It’s all any of us have. By doing so, tomorrow will take care of itself.
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11. Stop Procrastinating
If something needs to get done, then do it. Or, at the very least, make a plan and set a deadline to complete it.
A mounting list of unfinished tasks and projects is the definition of being stuck.
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12. Ask For What You Want
If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. On the other hand, by asking, you might be happily surprised by the response you receive.
Identifying and asking for what you want is a great way to start moving forward.
13. Get Enough Sleep
No one operates effectively when they are sleep-deprived. So whatever the amount of sleep you need, by all means, get it.
If necessary, invest in a good bed. It might be the best investment you ever make.
14. Exercise Regularly
Regular exercise will help you feel better, sleep better, have more energy, and be more productive.
15. Practice Self-Care
Be mindful and listen to your body. If something doesn’t seem or feel right, it probably isn’t. So, take care of it.
Never procrastinate with your mental and physical wellness.
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16. Find Work-Life Balance
We all need rest and recreation to relax our minds and bodies.
So, seek the right balance. You will be glad you did.
17. Learn To Say No
Don’t be that person who says yes to everything and fails to deliver on the promise.
Be selective. Say what you mean and do what you say. Your creditability depends on it.
18. Be Decisive
When confronted with an important decision, make it and move on.
Yes, gather the information you need to make the best decision. But never get stuck on important decisions by letting them linger in your life.
19. “Lean Into” Something
You won’t feel stuck when you dive into something important. So, choose something in your life and lean into it.
Give it your all. Immersing yourself in something important, fun, or relaxing will take your mind off your troubles and help propel you forward.
Some possible things to focus on include:
- Your job
- A relationship
- Your marriage
- The kids
- A hobby
- Physical fitness
Pursue your choice with heart and passion.
20. Remove Toxic People From Your Life
Run, don’t walk away from negative people with bad habits. They will bring you down and keep you stuck in life.
21. Find A Mentor
Identify someone you like and respect who has experience in areas you lack. Then, listen closely to what they say and learn everything you can from them.
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22. Be Kind And Take An Interest In Others
Be kind and sincere to others.
Talk less, speak low, and listen more. Always make the other person feel important, regardless of their status.
Remember, the golden rule is to do unto others as you would have others do unto you. So a simple hello, please, and thank you go a long way and cost nothing.
23. Give More Than You Take
My mother used to tell me that you always receive back twice as much as you give. So, as a result, be generous to others with your resources, whether they be time, money, knowledge, or skills.
24. Be Grateful For What You Have
People who are always moving forward practice gratitude.
Whether it’s keeping a gratitude journal, expressing appreciation to loved ones, or simply pausing to notice natural beauty. Practicing gratitude will shift your focus from what’s lacking in your life to what’s abundant.
Think of it this way. Most of the people and things in your life are good. So, focus on the good stuff and forget the rest. After all, tomorrow isn’t promised for you or me.
What To Do When You Are Feeling Stuck In Life
Today’s ways of approaching life when stuck aren’t reserved for a privileged few. On the contrary, they are accessible to everyone.
So, give one or more of these 24 behavior-changing habits a try:
- Practice positivity
- Improve body language
- Be confident
- Accept want can’t change
- Don’t set limits
- Set goals
- Establish routines
- Embrace change
- Manage stress
- Live in the moment
- Stop procrastinating
- Just ask
- Get enough sleep
- Exercise regularly
- Practice self-care
- Find work-life balance
- Just say no
- Be decisive
- Lean into something
- Avoid toxic people
- Find a mentor
- Be kind to others
- Give more than you take
- Practice gratitude
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Author Bio: Tom Scott founded the consulting and coaching firm Dividends Diversify, LLC. He leverages his expertise and decades of experience in goal setting, relocation assistance, and investing for long-term wealth to help clients reach their full potential.